DIY zone – Simply Me Blog https://simplymeblog.com Make Your Day Tue, 01 Apr 2025 08:18:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://simplymeblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/cropped-Black-Vintage-Emblem-Tree-Logo-1-32x32.png DIY zone – Simply Me Blog https://simplymeblog.com 32 32 231211893 The Dog Knew Something Was Wrong Before Anyone Else Did https://simplymeblog.com/the-dog-knew-something-was-wrong-before-anyone-else-did/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 08:18:38 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120204 The Dog Knew Something Was Wrong Before Anyone Else Did

It was supposed to be a normal coffee run. I was standing in line at the cafe, half-awake, scrolling through my phone, and my dog Nino was laying beside me like he always does—quiet, well-trained, never bothers anyone.

That’s when I noticed his ears perk up. He stood, tail stiff, and stared dead ahead at something. I followed his gaze and saw a man holding a little girl’s hand.

She looked about six. Tiny. Wearing this pink jacket with cartoon cats on it. Her hair was messy, like she’d just rolled out of bed. At first, nothing seemed off—until she turned her head slightly and looked right at me.

I don’t know how to explain it. Her mouth didn’t move, but her eyes… they were screaming. She had this frozen look, like she wanted to say something but couldn’t. Nino let out this low growl. That was weird enough to make me stop everything and really look.

The man tugged her sleeve and leaned down to whisper something. She flinched. That was all it took—Nino started barking. Loud, sharp, angry barks. Everyone in line turned to stare.

The man froze. He looked straight at me, then down at Nino, then yanked the girl’s hand and started walking fast toward the door.

My heart was racing. I knew I couldn’t just watch him leave. I handed my phone to the barista and said, “Call someone. Please.”

And then I ran after them.

I wasn’t even thinking. I just pushed through the crowd and followed them outside. He was fast, dragging the girl along the sidewalk toward the parking lot. Nino stayed by my side, barking like mad. People were watching now. A few even stepped out of the café.

“Hey!” I yelled. “Hey, is she with you?”

He didn’t answer. Didn’t even turn around. The girl tried to look back, but he jerked her forward again.

And that’s when this woman, mid-forties maybe, came running out of the store next door, screaming, “Sienna!”

The man froze.

The little girl whipped her head around. “Mom!”

In one second, everything turned. The guy let go of her hand and tried to bolt, but two guys from the hardware store next door had already caught on. One of them tackled him right there by the bushes, and the other pinned him until police showed up—fast, actually, because someone had flagged down a passing patrol car.

The mom grabbed her daughter and just held her. The way she was sobbing, I’ll never forget that sound. It was like a deep, shaken relief. She kept repeating, “I just turned around for two seconds.”

Apparently, the man had been lingering around the strip mall earlier, pretending to check out the bakery next door. Nobody noticed anything off until he somehow lured the little girl out while her mom was paying at the register.

And honestly, I might not have noticed either—if it hadn’t been for Nino.

The officer asked for my statement. I was still shaking, but I told them everything. How Nino reacted. How the girl looked at me. The barista backed up my story. And the security footage from the café helped, too.

The guy had no ID on him. Turns out he wasn’t even from around here. They later found out he had a record in another state, stuff involving minors. He was already on parole.

Sienna’s mom, Laila, came over to thank me after the police left with the man in cuffs. She hugged me so tight I nearly cried. “If it weren’t for you,” she whispered, “I don’t know…”

I told her, “Honestly, thank him.” I looked down at Nino, who was finally calm, tongue out, looking proud and clueless like he’d just fetched a tennis ball.

She knelt down and hugged him, too.

That day stuck with me. Still does.

I keep thinking about how many people saw that man with Sienna and didn’t think twice. Even I almost missed it. But something in Nino just knew. Some instinct, something pure. He didn’t second-guess it.

And maybe that’s what stuck with me the most. We’re always so quick to rationalize what we see. “Maybe it’s nothing,” we tell ourselves. “Don’t make a scene.” But animals don’t do that. They feel. They trust what they feel.

Now, I try to do the same.

A few weeks later, Laila and Sienna came by the café again. Sienna was holding a drawing of Nino. Crayon scribbles, a pink jacket, and a dog with giant cartoon eyes. She gave it to me with a shy smile and said, “He saved me.”

I’ve got it framed in my kitchen now.

If something feels wrong—say something. Step in. Ask the awkward question. Be that person. Because sometimes, just noticing… can change everything.

And hey—never underestimate a dog.

If this story moved you, share it. Someone out there might need the reminder.
(And give your dog a treat today—they might be a hero, too.)

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We Posted Our Anniversary Photo – And The Comments Sh.0.0.k Us Both https://simplymeblog.com/we-posted-our-anniversary-photo-and-the-comments-sh-0-0-k-us-both/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 08:14:14 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120183 We Posted Our Anniversary Photo – And The Comments Sh.0.0.k Us Both

Dan and I always got those “couple goals” comments. Every time we went out—matching outfits, inside jokes, goofy dancing at weddings—people said we made love look easy. And honestly? We kind of believed it too.

Last month was our seventh anniversary. We picked this candid photo from a friend’s wedding—me laughing with my head back, Dan kissing my cheek. It was sweet, real, totally us. I captioned it: “7 years, 1000 memories, and somehow still my favorite person. #AnniversaryLove #StillGotIt”

Within an hour, it had blown up. Hundreds of likes, heart emojis, “OMG you two!!!” and “Forever inspo.” But then the comments started getting… weird.

Dan’s ex from college—who I haven’t spoken to in years—just commented: “Glad it all worked out for you two”
A former coworker of his said: “Wild how time changes people. Hope you’re both happy, truly.”
Then my cousin Rhea DMed me something that made my stomach flip: “Hey, I didn’t want to say anything but… maybe take a look at the background in that photo?”

I zoomed in. Nothing obvious at first. Just people dancing, a waiter walking by, fairy lights.

Then I saw it.

My sister.

With her hand on Dan’s back.

Way too familiar.

The picture was from three months ago. I hadn’t even noticed she was at that wedding. She told me she had to work.

I didn’t say anything to Dan right away. I just kept scrolling through the comments, every little “joke” or side-eye emoji suddenly hitting different.

That night, he asked why I was being quiet. I told him I was just tired.

But now I can’t stop wondering how many people saw it before I did.

Or how long it’s been going on.

The next morning, I couldn’t hold it in. I asked him straight up, “Was my sister at Mateo’s wedding?”

Dan blinked like I’d hit him with a riddle. “Uh… yeah, I think so? Maybe? I didn’t really notice her.”

Lie number one.

I pulled up the photo and zoomed in, showing him her hand on his back.

“Looks like you noticed her just fine.”

His face changed. Not guilt, exactly. More like a mix of panic and annoyance. “Wendy, come on. It’s just a picture. She probably came over to say hi or something.”

“So she lied about working. And you conveniently forgot she was there. That doesn’t feel weird to you?”

He exhaled hard and rubbed his face. “Look, I didn’t want to start anything. You two already don’t get along.”

He wasn’t wrong. My sister, Noelle, and I had this off-and-on relationship. We weren’t close, but we weren’t strangers either. She always had a way of getting under my skin—flirty with my boyfriends, competitive about everything. But she was family. I trusted that Dan knew better.

I didn’t bring it up again for a couple days. I needed to cool off and get my head straight. But things felt different between us after that. Every smile felt a little too rehearsed. Every text he sent that he quickly closed out of made my stomach twist.

Then I did something I never thought I’d do.

I went through his email.

It wasn’t just one or two messages. There were months of emails between them. Mostly innocent-sounding on the surface, but full of private jokes, late-night messages, and little check-ins like “Did you make it home safe?” and “I still think about that night.” One even said, “She doesn’t have to know. It’s better this way.”

I felt like my lungs stopped working. Not just because he betrayed me—but because it was her. My own sister.

Instead of confronting them immediately, I called my mom. I needed grounding. I needed to talk to someone who wouldn’t just react—but actually listen.

Her voice cracked after I told her. “Wen… this isn’t the first time Noelle’s done something like this.”

“What do you mean?”

“She did the same thing to her college roommate. Slept with her fiancé right before the wedding.”

I was speechless.

My mom sighed. “I don’t know why she does it. I’ve tried to get her to talk about it, but she always brushes it off. And I know this doesn’t fix anything for you, sweetheart. But maybe this isn’t just about Dan. Maybe Noelle needs help too.”

It’s wild how betrayal makes you question everything. Your instincts, your history, your worth.

I ended up confronting them both—separately. I didn’t yell. I didn’t throw things. I just asked them to tell me the truth.

Dan admitted it. Said it only happened once. That he felt guilty and wanted to end it, but Noelle kept messaging him. Noelle? She didn’t deny it. She just said, “I didn’t think you two were really happy. You make it look like a fairy tale online, but come on, Wen. That stuff’s fake.”

That line hurt more than anything.

Because maybe… she was right. We had been faking it. Not the love part. But the perfection.

I moved out the following week. Took some time at my friend Lianne’s place to think, cry, and regroup. It was hard, and it’s still hard, but I know now what I didn’t know before:

Looking like “goals” means nothing if it’s built on silence and secrets.

Social media only shows the surface. But what really matters? The stuff underneath. The honesty. The trust. The uncomfortable conversations.

I don’t know what’s next for me, but I know I deserve better than being someone’s Plan B or social media prop.

If you’ve ever found yourself questioning what’s real behind the filtered photos—trust that little voice in your gut. It’s usually onto something.

Thanks for reading. If this story hit home, feel free to like and share. You never know who might need to hear it.

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I Didn’t Plan To Be A Dad That Day – But She Chose Me https://simplymeblog.com/i-didnt-plan-to-be-a-dad-that-day-but-she-chose-me/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 07:52:30 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120175 I Didn’t Plan To Be A Dad That Day – But She Chose Me

It started like any other shift. I was doing a routine check around a park in Modesto when I saw her—barefoot, wrapped in a threadbare hoodie, curled up on a bench. She couldn’t have been more than 19. When I asked if she was okay, she looked up with glassy eyes and whispered, “I’m just trying to keep her warm.” That’s when I saw the bundle on her chest—a tiny baby, barely a week old.

I radioed in for support, but something about her made me stay. She wasn’t high or aggressive, just scared and exhausted. Said her name was Kiara. She’d aged out of foster care a few months back, gave birth in a motel, then ended up on the streets. The baby’s name was Nia. No birth certificate, no hospital records. Just the two of them, hanging on.

We got them to a shelter, and I figured that was the end of it.

But it wasn’t.

I kept thinking about that baby—how she gripped my pinky with her whole hand when I first held her. I visited the shelter a week later, then again. Eventually, Kiara started trusting me. She’d ask me stuff like what diapers I thought were best, or how to tell if a baby had a fever.

Then one afternoon, she pulled me aside. She’d made up her mind.

“I’m not ready to be a mom. But you… you care. She smiles when she sees you.”

I stood there, speechless. I mean, who wakes up thinking they’ll be asked to adopt a baby before dinner?

But something inside me just… clicked.

I told her I’d look into it. That night, I sat in my car outside the precinct and cried. I’d never pictured myself as a father. I didn’t even have a crib or a clue.

But I knew I couldn’t say no.

What I didn’t expect—what no one warned me about—was what came next.

Turns out, nothing about adopting a child is simple—especially one without papers, a birth certificate, or even a last name on record.

Child Protective Services got involved, naturally. The shelter flagged it. They needed to determine if Kiara was of sound mind, if the child was safe, if I—an on-duty officer—was overstepping.

I was investigated. Background checks, home visits, psychological evaluations—the whole nine yards. I get it. They were just doing their job. But still, it felt like they were ripping her from me before I’d even had the chance to hold onto her.

During that time, I wasn’t allowed to see Nia. Two months. Longest stretch of my life.

I kept tabs through Kiara. She was trying. Really trying. Got into a transitional program for young mothers. Took parenting classes. Cleaned up, even got a part-time job at a thrift store. And part of me started to wonder—maybe she was ready after all.

But one morning, she called me crying. Said she was done pretending.

“I can’t be what she needs,” she whispered. “But you can. You already are.”

She’d made the hardest choice a mother could make. Not because she didn’t love her daughter, but because she did.

After that, the process picked back up again. Kiara signed over parental rights. I was cleared by the department. I had to learn how to change diapers, install a car seat, and soothe a colicky baby at 2 a.m.—all while still working shifts. My buddies at the station pitched in. One guy brought over a crib his twins had outgrown. My sergeant’s wife dropped off a whole bag of bottles, wipes, formula.

But the moment I officially became her father, when the judge signed the papers and said, “Congratulations, Mr. Duvall”—I broke down like a baby myself.

I named her Nia Grace Duvall. Same first name Kiara gave her. I wanted to honor that. Because no matter what, Kiara was part of her story.

We still see Kiara sometimes. She visits on Nia’s birthday. Brings her a little gift, tells her she loves her, and hugs her tight. We don’t call her “mom”—Kiara asked that we wait until Nia’s older and can decide that for herself.

Nia’s four now. She’s got this wild laugh and curls that bounce when she runs. Loves pancakes and dancing barefoot in the living room. Every time she wraps her arms around my neck and says, “I love you, Daddy,” I remember that cold morning in the park. I remember how close she came to being lost in the system.

And I remember how her mother, in the middle of her own storm, chose to give her a chance.

Being a dad wasn’t in my plans. But it became the best thing that ever happened to me.

If you’re ever in a position to help someone—even when it feels messy, complicated, or overwhelming—lean in. Sometimes the biggest blessings don’t come in perfect packages. Sometimes they show up on a park bench, wrapped in a hoodie, looking up at you with tired eyes and asking for nothing… except a little help.

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Chief Doctor Disgracefully Fired Me For Performing Surgery On A Homeless Woman https://simplymeblog.com/chief-doctor-disgracefully-fired-me-for-performing-surgery-on-a-homeless-woman/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 07:46:35 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120165 Chief Doctor Disgracefully Fired Me For Performing Surgery On A Homeless Woman

From the moment I stepped into the operating room, I knew I had found my purpose. Becoming a surgeon was more than just a job—it was a calling. After years of grueling training, sleepless nights, and relentless pressure, I had finally earned my place as a full-fledged surgeon at one of the most prestigious hospitals in the city. It was everything I had ever wanted.

But in one single night, it all came crashing down.

It was well past midnight when the ambulance doors swung open. Paramedics rushed in, pushing a gurney with an unconscious woman. She was pale, her breathing shallow. “Blunt force trauma to the abdomen,” one of the paramedics called out. “Possible internal bleeding. No ID, no insurance.”

I scanned her face—she was young, no older than forty, with deep lines of hardship etched into her sunken cheeks. A homeless woman.

“ER won’t take her,” the nurse murmured beside me.

Hospital policy was strict. Uninsured patients could receive basic care, but anything requiring significant resources—like emergency surgery—needed approval from administration. And at this hour, there was no one around to grant it.

“She won’t last another hour,” the paramedic pressed. “She needs surgery now.”

I swallowed hard, glancing at the clock. I knew what the rules were. I also knew that if I hesitated, she would die.

I made my choice.

“Prep the OR,” I ordered.

The nurses exchanged wary glances, but I was their superior in that moment. I had the authority. And so, we operated.

The procedure took nearly three hours. She had a ruptured spleen and significant blood loss. It was a miracle she had even made it to the hospital. When I finally closed the last suture, her vitals had stabilized. Relief flooded through me. I had saved her.

But my relief was short-lived.

The next morning, as I walked into the hospital, I barely made it past the reception desk before my name was called over the intercom.

“Dr. Harrison, report to the main conference room immediately.”

I knew what was coming.

The chief doctor, Dr. Langford, stood at the front of the room, his face twisted in fury. The entire surgical team had gathered, their gazes bouncing between me and him. My stomach clenched.

“Dr. Harrison,” he said, his voice sharp. “Do you understand what you’ve done?”

I swallowed. “I saved a life.”

His face darkened. “You cost this hospital thousands of dollars on a surgery for a patient who will never pay a dime! You broke protocol, risked our funding, and made an executive decision that was not yours to make!”

I wanted to argue. I wanted to shout that we were doctors, not businessmen. That we had sworn an oath. That if we started weighing the worth of a life in dollars, then we had lost the very soul of our profession.

But I didn’t get the chance.

“You’re fired,” he said coldly. “Effective immediately.”

A stunned silence fell over the room. My colleagues looked away. No one spoke up for me. Not a single person. I felt my face burn with anger, my hands curl into fists. But I refused to let them see my humiliation. Without a word, I turned and walked out of the room, out of the hospital, out of the life I had built.

That night, I lay awake, staring at my ceiling. I had nothing. No job, no backup plan, no idea what came next. But even through the despair, I knew one thing: I didn’t regret saving that woman.

The next morning, I woke up to an unexpected call.

“Dr. Harrison,” the voice on the other end was shaky. “It’s Dr. Langford. I—I need your help.”

I almost laughed, thinking it was some cruel joke. But then he said something that made my blood run cold.

“It’s my daughter.”

I listened as he explained in frantic, desperate breaths. His daughter, Melany, had been in a terrible accident. Internal bleeding. She needed surgery immediately. But the hospital was overbooked. The best trauma surgeons were all in the middle of procedures. And the only one who had the skills and the availability was me.

“I know I don’t deserve to ask this,” he choked out, “but please, Dr. Harrison. I have no one else.”

An hour later, I was back at the hospital—this time, as the only hope for the very man who had humiliated me.

Melany’s condition was critical, but I worked with steady hands, my mind laser-focused. The moment I saw her on the operating table, everything else faded away. She wasn’t just Langford’s daughter—she was a patient. And patients were my responsibility.

The surgery was a success. When I finally walked out, Langford was waiting in the hall, his face pale, his eyes red-rimmed.

When he saw me, he did something I never expected.

He fell to his knees.

“Thank you,” he whispered, voice cracking. “I should never have fired you. I should have—” He shook his head, swallowing hard. “I should have stood by you. You could have said no, but you saved her life/”

For the first time, he looked at me not as a subordinate, not as a rule-breaker, but as a doctor. An equal.

A week later, my position was reinstated. Not just reinstated—I was promoted. Langford made a public statement, changing hospital policy to allow emergency surgeries for uninsured patients. And the woman I had operated on? She survived. She was given resources, housing, a second chance at life.

I had lost everything for doing what was right. But in the end, doing what was right gave me everything back—and more.

And that is why I will always believe in the oath I took: to heal, to protect, and to save, no matter the cost.

This story was inspired by real people and events, though names and places have been changed for privacy. If this story moved you, share it with others and leave a like—because sometimes, the right choice isn’t the easiest one, but it’s always worth it.

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There is a man hiding nearby, help the girl find him https://simplymeblog.com/there-is-a-man-hiding-nearby-help-the-girl-find-him/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 03:03:09 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120077 There is a man hiding nearby, help the girl find him

Be careful, because time is running out and every second counts. Only the most observant and quick-witted will be able to spot what is out of place. It will be a challenge of concentration and visual agility, testing your ability to notice even the smallest details in a short period of time.

So, get ready to dive into this enchanting scene and explore every corner of the images in search of the discrepancy. Remember, you only have one minute to find the difference and show off your visual perception skills. Are you ready to take on the challenge? Let’s go! 

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Cher, 78, and boyfriend Alexander ‘AE’ Edwards, 39, cozy up on ‘SNL 50’ anniversary special red carpet https://simplymeblog.com/cher-78-and-boyfriend-alexander-ae-edwards-39-cozy-up-on-snl-50-anniversary-special-red-carpet/ Tue, 01 Apr 2025 02:14:19 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=120059 Cher, 78, and boyfriend Alexander ‘AE’ Edwards, 39, cozy up on ‘SNL 50’ anniversary special red carpet

Cher and her boyfriend, Alexander “AE” Edwards, looked cozy while posing for photos at the “Saturday Night Live” 50th anniversary special Sunday.

The “Believe” singer, 78, and the music producer, 39, held hands while walking the carpet for “SNL 50” in New York City, per videos obtained by Page Six.

The couple stopped to pose for photos together, and Cher placed her hand on Edwards’ chest while nuzzling her nose against the side of his face.

Cher dazzled in a floor-length, long-sleeve black satin dress with silver sequins outlining her sweetheart neckline and added a black fur shawl.

The “If I Could Turn back Time” songstress wore her hair in a dramatic beehive updo with few curly pieces framing her face. She accessorized the look with black heels and silver earrings.

Edwards matched Cher’s all-black vibe by wearing a black satin shirt with a white collar under a black double breasted blazer and black slacks.

Cher had a jam-packed weekend celebrating the sketch comedy show’s major milestone, since she also stepped out to perform at the “SNL 50: The Homecoming Concert” Friday night.

The Grammy winner stunned in a sheer black sequined bodysuit with thigh-high black black leather boots to perform her hit “If I Could Turn Back Time” in front of several celebrities at Radio City Music Hall.

It’s unclear if Edwards joined her for the festivities on Friday night, but he’s attended several events with her over the last two years.

The “Burlesque” actress and the Universal Music Group music executive first sparked romance rumors when they were photographed holding hands at dinner in November 2022.

Just a few days after the outing, Cher took to X to defend their relationship by writing, “Love doesn’t know math, it sees.”

“haven’t You Got Anything Else 2 Do,” Cher wrote in another X message. “Let Me Explain…I DONT GIVE A [flying] FK WHAT ANYONE THINKS.”

Cher later described her beau as “kind, smart” and “hilarious” and has only continued gushing over her man.

“On paper, it’s kind of ridiculous,” she admitted on “The Kelly Clarkson Show” in December 2022. “But in real life, we get along great.”

The couple briefly split in May 2023, but they got back together just a few months later.

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My Husband Moved Back in with His Mom Because My Cough ‘Was Annoying’ While I Was Sick with Our Baby – So I Taught Him a Lesson https://simplymeblog.com/my-husband-moved-back-in-with-his-mom-because-my-cough-was-annoying-while-i-was-sick-with-our-baby-so-i-taught-him-a-lesson/ Mon, 31 Mar 2025 08:26:00 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=119981 My Husband Moved Back in with His Mom Because My Cough ‘Was Annoying’ While I Was Sick with Our Baby – So I Taught Him a Lesson

When I got sick, I finally saw a side to my husband that I didn’t like. He abandoned me and our newborn baby because he didn’t want to step up and be a good father and husband, so I played along. But I came out on top!

I’m 30, married to a man named Drew who’s 33, and we have a six-month-old baby girl named Sadie. She’s the light of my life—a smile like sunshine, chubby cheeks, and the sweetest little giggle. But apparently, all of that was just a minor inconvenience to my husband when I got sick.

Let me tell you what happened. Strap in, because it still feels like a fever dream, and not just because I had a fever when it all started. This all occurred about a month ago. I’d caught some brutal virus. Not COVID-19, not RSV, but something gnarly.

I mean, this thing came with body aches, chills, and a cough that made my ribs feel like they were being punched from the inside! The worst part? Sadie had just gotten over a cold herself, so I was already drained.

At this point, I was sleep-deprived, sick, and trying to take care of a baby who was still clingy from her own recovery. Strangely, Drew had been acting weird for weeks, even before I got sick. He was distant.

Always on his phone, chuckling at things he wouldn’t share. When I’d ask what was so funny, he’d just shrug and say, “It’s work stuff.” His fuse was short, too. He snapped over stupid things—the dishes in the sink and my forgetting to defrost the chicken.

My husband also kept commenting on how tired I looked. “You always seem exhausted,” he said one night while I rocked Sadie in my arms and tried to suppress a cough.

“Well, yeah, duh. I’m raising a human,” I replied with a tinge of annoyance.

I thought maybe, just maybe, this illness would snap him out of it. I hoped he’d see me struggling and finally step up. Pick up the slack. Be the man I married.

Boy, was I wrong!

The night my fever hit 102.4, I could barely sit up! My hair was stuck to my forehead, my skin burned, and my whole body ached like I’d been hit by a truck! I looked at him and, with all the strength I could muster, I whispered, “Can you please take Sadie? I just need to lie down for 20 minutes.”

He didn’t even blink. “I can’t. Your cough is keeping me up. I NEED SLEEP. I think I’m gonna stay at my mom’s for a few nights.”

I actually laughed—not because it was funny, but because it was so absurd I thought he had to be joking!

He wasn’t.

He actually got up, packed a duffel bag, kissed Sadie on the head—not me—and walked out. All the while, I kept asking him, “Are you serious right now? You’re really leaving?” And he just nodded his head and said nothing.

He didn’t even bother asking how Sadie would be taken care of while I could barely stand! After he left, I sat on the couch holding her while she cried from being overtired and hungry. I stared at the door. My phone buzzed a few minutes later after I texted him.

“You’re seriously leaving me here sick and alone with the baby?” I had texted, still in disbelief.

“You’re the mom. You know how to handle this stuff better than me. I’d just get in the way. Plus, I’m exhausted and your cough is unbearable.”

I read that text five times and stared at it in shock! My hands were shaking, whether from the fever or the rage, I’ll never know! I couldn’t believe that this man, who was supposed to be my life partner, thought my cough was too much of a hindrance than staying and helping with OUR child while I was clearly sick!?

FINE!

I somehow made it through the weekend. I barely ate. I cried in the shower when Sadie finally napped. I kept her alive on nothing but Tylenol, willpower, and instinct. And during that time, Drew didn’t check in, not once!

I couldn’t rely on family because they were hours away, and although my friends popped in and called now and then, they were too busy, out of town, or had some other reason. The whole time I was burning up in bed, one idea kept playing in my mind: I need to show this man what it feels like to be completely abandoned.

So I did.

I started devising my plan. I figured if he thought being sick and then abandoned wasn’t a big deal, I was going to give him an idea of what it felt like. By the time I felt somewhat human again, with no fever, still coughing but functional, I knew exactly what I was going to do.

So a week later, I texted him.

“Hey babe. I’m feeling much better now. You can come home.”

He didn’t hesitate. “Thank God! I’ve barely slept here. Mom’s dog snores and she keeps asking me to help with yard work.”

Yard work. Poor baby. Imagine that.

Ahead of his return, I cleaned the kitchen from top to bottom, prepped Sadie’s bottles and food, and even made Drew’s favorite dinner, spaghetti carbonara with garlic bread from scratch. I showered, put on makeup for the first time in two weeks, and wore jeans that didn’t scream “I’ve been up every two hours with a baby.”

When he walked in, he looked around like everything was back to normal. He was smiling, looking relaxed, ate like a king, burped, and then collapsed onto the couch with his phone! He barely said a word to me about the week I had endured!

A few minutes into his relaxation time, I finally struck!

“Hey,” I said sweetly, “Can you hold Sadie for a sec? I need to grab something upstairs.”

“Sure,” he muttered after sighing and rolling his eyes. He kept scrolling TikTok with one hand and held her with the other.

I came down five minutes later with my small suitcase and my car keys. Sadie was smiling and babbling in his lap.

Noticing the movement, he blinked. “What’s that?”

“I booked a weekend spa retreat,” I said, calm as can be. “Massage, facial, room service. I just need some rest.”

He sat up, confused. “Wait, you’re going now?!”

“Yep. Just two nights. I left instructions. Bottles are labeled and her toys are there. Diapers and wipes are stocked. Emergency numbers are on the fridge. I got lots of groceries. Everything’s good. Unlike you, I actually planned ahead for you. Besides, you’re the dad. You know how to handle this stuff.”

“Claire, I don’t know what to—” he started.

I raised a hand. “No, no. Your words last week, remember? ‘You’re the mom. You know how to handle this stuff better than me.’ Now it’s your turn.”

He seemed gobsmacked for a few seconds before he said, “Wait—Claire, c’mon. You can’t just—”

“I can. I am. You abandoned me when I needed you most. So now you’ll see what it’s like to carry everything alone. Don’t call unless it’s a real emergency. And no pawning her off on your mom. You’re the dad. Figure it out.”

He just stared at me with his eyes wide. I don’t think he was processing what was happening.

“You wanted sleep? Good luck getting any. Bye-bye, dear. I’ll be back Sunday night!”

And then I walked out. I didn’t slam the door. I didn’t cry in the car. I drove 45 minutes to a beautiful, tranquil, and quiet little inn with a spa and free chocolate chip cookies in the lobby.

That day, I vowed not to answer any calls or texts. I figured if there was a real issue, Drew could get in touch with his mother or take Sadie to the hospital. I even ignored the first wave of panicked voicemails and FaceTime attempts.

Instead, I had a 90-minute massage, took naps, read by the fireplace, got a pedicure, and watched trashy reality shows in a fluffy robe. Bliss!

Saturday? Slept in until 9 a.m., got a facial, and ate a warm croissant while reading a book by the fire.

He did call twice. Left two voicemails. One was mild panic. The other was an attempt to guilt-trip me.

“Claire, Sadie won’t nap. I don’t know how you do this. She spit up on me twice. Please call back.”

I didn’t.

But I did FaceTime that evening because, despite everything, I missed my daughter, and unlike him, I still really loved him.

When the screen lit up, Drew looked like he’d aged 10 years. Sadie was in his arms, hair a mess, chewing on his hoodie string. Her diaper looked… full.

“Hey, Sadie-bug,” I said, my voice softening. “Mommy misses you.”

She smiled. Reached for the screen. Drew looked like he wanted to melt.

“Claire,” he said, his voice cracking. “I’m sorry. I’m really, really sorry. I didn’t realize how hard this is!”

No kidding!

I nodded. “I know.”

Sunday evening, I came home to a war zone! Toys everywhere. Dirty bottles in the sink. Drew was still in the same shirt from the day before, his eyes sunken, hair sticking up like a cartoon scientist!

Sadie squealed and giggled when she saw me! I scooped her up and kissed her all over! She smelled like baby wipes and panic, but was fine, maybe a little clingy.

Drew just looked at me like he was seeing a goddess with infinite powers—exhausted and ashamed.

“I get it now,” he whispered. “I really do.”

“Do you?” I asked.

He nodded. “I messed up.”

I pulled out a folded paper from my purse and placed it on the table. Don’t get excited, it wasn’t divorce papers, at least, not yet. He looked down like a deer caught in headlights, probably thinking the papers were the end of our marriage.

But it was a list. A schedule. Morning duties, nighttime feedings, grocery runs, laundry, baths. His name was next to half of them.

“You don’t get to tap out anymore,” I told him. “I need a partner. Not a third child.”

He nodded, slowly. “Okay. I’m in.”

To his credit, he has been trying. He wakes up when Sadie cries at night. He makes her bottles and finally managed to change her diaper without gagging! He even learned to swaddle her without watching a tutorial!

But I’m not stupid. I’m not rushing to forgive him. I’m still watching. Still deciding.

But at least now, he knows: love doesn’t mean allowing someone to walk all over you, and I’m not the type of woman you leave behind when things get tough.

I’m the woman who makes sure you never, ever forget it.

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Will you be able to find the old man’s friends? https://simplymeblog.com/will-you-be-able-to-find-the-old-mans-friends/ Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:29:24 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=119933 Will you be able to find the old man’s friends?

The task is simple: an old man and his two friends went to the mountains. We see the old man, but his two friends are hiding somewhere. Can you find them in less than 20 seconds?

Get out your stopwatch to keep track of the time accurately.

Important: do not click on the picture until you find the old man’s friends or decide to give up. The correct answer is hidden on the back. Do not lose hope ahead of time, because it is much more pleasant to solve the problem yourself, you will succeed!

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Can you find the lady in 5 seconds? https://simplymeblog.com/can-you-find-the-lady-in-5-seconds/ Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:17:44 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=119919 Can you find the lady in 5 seconds?

This old attention puzzle puzzled people in the last century. We clearly see a man in the picture, it is difficult not to notice him, but we can’t find the lady, can you help? Can you do it in 5 seconds or will it take more time?

Before you begin the task, make sure you have 5 minutes of free time when no one will disturb you. Turn off the sound on your phone and give your eyes a little rest: close them and count to 10. Ready? Then you can start searching.

Take out your phone and turn on the stopwatch.

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Do you see the man’s chicken in this picture? https://simplymeblog.com/do-you-see-the-mans-chicken-in-this-picture/ Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:07:03 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=119905 Do you see the man’s chicken in this picture?

Be careful, because time is running out and every second counts. Only the most observant and quick-witted will be able to spot what is out of place. It will be a challenge of concentration and visual agility, testing your ability to notice even the smallest details in a short period of time.

So, get ready to dive into this enchanting scene and explore every corner of the images in search of the discrepancy. Remember, you only have one minute to find the difference and show off your visual perception skills. Are you ready to take on the challenge? Let’s go! 

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