story – Simply Me Blog https://simplymeblog.com Make Your Day Sat, 18 Jan 2025 01:23:45 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://simplymeblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/cropped-Black-Vintage-Emblem-Tree-Logo-1-32x32.png story – Simply Me Blog https://simplymeblog.com 32 32 My Sister Planned a Lie Detector Contest for My Fiancé and Me at My Wedding—the Wedding Was Canceled After Taking It… https://simplymeblog.com/my-sister-planned-a-lie-detector-contest-for-my-fiance-and-me-at-my-wedding-the-wedding-was-canceled-after-taking-it/ Sat, 18 Jan 2025 01:23:45 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=108376 I always thought my wedding day would be unforgettable for all the right reasons. Instead, it became unforgettable for a reason I could never have imagined. It all began when my sister brought a lie detector test to the wedding.

I’m Harlene, a 28-year-old teacher, and until recently, I thought I had the perfect life. My fiancé, Mark, and I had been together for five wonderful years, planning a future filled with love and laughter. That future vanished the moment my sister, Melissa, turned my wedding into a nightmare.

Let me explain.

Mark and I met through a mutual friend five years ago, and from the moment we connected, it felt like we’d known each other forever.

He was very kind and sensitive to everyone’s feelings around him. What I loved the most about him was how he respected everyone equally and never shied away from helping others.

It didn’t take time before we became inseparable. We’d spend weekends exploring new restaurants, binge-watching sitcoms, and dreaming about the future.

“Har,” he’d say with a teasing grin, “if you weren’t such a good cook, I’d probably starve to death.”

“Good thing I love feeding you,” I’d reply, laughing as he polished off yet another plate of lasagna.

Mark worked as a software developer, a job that sometimes kept him at his desk late into the night. I never minded, though. I understood his dedication and appreciated the effort he put into his career.

As for me, I was living my dream as a teacher. My students were my little rays of sunshine, and I loved every chaotic, beautiful moment of my job.

When we decided to get married, we both agreed that our wedding should be a celebration of love and fun. We wanted everyone to feel as happy as we did.

“Let’s make it the kind of wedding people will talk about for years,” Mark said one evening as we brainstormed ideas.

“Definitely,” I replied. “How about games? Fun ones that get everyone involved?”

“Perfect,” he said, his eyes lighting up. “We can have trivia or charades or something. Maybe even a karaoke battle.”

We even looped in my sister, Melissa, for some ideas. At the time, she didn’t seem particularly interested.

“I don’t know,” she said with a shrug. “You guys are the creative ones. Just tell me what to do, and I’ll help.”

With Melissa’s lackluster input, Mark and I continued planning the wedding of our dreams. Every detail mattered to us, from the playlist to the seating chart.

Mark was attentive to everything, from how the napkins matched the centerpieces to ensuring that the cake was perfect.

“This is going to be the best day of our lives,” I told him as we finalized the guest list.

“It will,” he said, squeezing my hand. “I can’t wait to see you walk down the aisle.”

And I believed him. I believed in us. We were the perfect team, and nothing could go wrong.

Little did I know, the wedding we so lovingly planned would turn into a moment I’d wish I could forget.

The day of the wedding had finally arrived, and I was filled with excitement.

As I stood in front of the mirror, I couldn’t stop smiling. This was it. This was the day I’d dreamed of for so long.

When I walked into the venue, the energy was electric. Everyone seemed to be having a wonderful time, laughing, chatting, and soaking in the atmosphere we’d worked so hard to create.

Mark greeted me at the entrance with a kiss on the cheek.

“You look stunning, Har,” he said, his voice full of admiration.

“And you look dashing yourself,” I replied with a grin, taking in his crisp suit and the way his eyes sparkled.

Everything felt magical until Melissa grabbed the microphone.

“Alright, everyone!” she called out, her voice cutting through the chatter. “I have a little surprise for the happy couple! I’ve been planning this for weeks, and I promise it’s going to be so much fun!”

I looked at her with wide eyes. I hadn’t heard anything about a surprise game.

“Melissa, what’s this about?” I asked, walking over to her.

“You’ll see!” she said with a mischievous grin. She waved to a man in the corner, who wheeled in a small machine with wires and sensors.

“What on earth is that?” I asked, my curiosity piqued.

“It’s a lie detector!” Melissa exclaimed, beaming. “I saw this online and thought it would be a hilarious wedding game. You and Mark will answer a few fun questions while hooked up to it. Trust me, everyone’s going to love it.”

I glanced at Mark, who gave me a skeptical look but shrugged.

“Why not?” he said. “Let’s give them a show.”

“That’s the spirit!” Melissa exclaimed, clapping her hands. “Come on, let’s get started.”

The technician hooked us up to the machine, and Melissa began with lighthearted questions.

“Mark,” she said with a smirk, “have you ever eaten the last slice of pizza and blamed it on Harlene?”

He laughed. “Yes,” he admitted, to a chorus of laughter from the guests.

Next, it was my turn.

“Harlene,” Melissa asked, “have you ever secretly binge-watched a show without Mark?”

“Guilty as charged,” I said, grinning as the detector beeped to confirm I was telling the truth.

The questions continued, each one sillier than the last. Guests took turns coming up with their own, like, “Have you ever lied about liking your partner’s cooking?” or “Did you ever have a crush on a celebrity while dating each other?”

The air was filled with laughter, and I thought this might actually be one of the most memorable moments of the day.

Then Uncle Sam stood up. His usually jovial face was deadly serious as he walked toward the mic.

“Now it’s my turn,” he said, his voice low and deliberate. “Mark, did you ever cheat on my niece?”

Wait, what? I thought. Where did that come from?

I stared at him in silence, while the murmurs filled the air.

Mark chuckled nervously, looking around at the stunned faces.

“That’s a ridiculous question, Uncle Sam. I don’t think I need to dignify it with an answer,” he said, trying to wave it off.

But Uncle Sam wasn’t smiling.

“I think you should, Mark,” he said firmly. “If you’ve got nothing to hide, what’s the harm in answering?”

I felt my heart pounding in my chest.

“Mark,” I said, trying to diffuse the tension, “it’s just a game. Let’s not ruin the mood, okay?”

Mark turned to me, his jaw tight. “Exactly. It’s just a game, and this question is out of line.”

But the look in his eyes gave me pause. There was no humor there, no easy confidence. He looked… defensive.

I tried to reassure myself. This was Mark, my Mark. The man I’d trusted and loved for five years. There was no way he’d cheated on me. Right?

But Uncle Sam wasn’t backing down. “Why not answer, then? If it’s absurd, prove it.”

Mark clenched his fists, his face hardening. “Because it’s insulting, that’s why. I don’t owe anyone an answer to something so ridiculous.”

I glanced around the room, noticing the growing unease among the guests. The whispers, the exchanged glances. My pulse quickened. Why was Mark reacting this way?

“Mark,” I said softly, reaching for his hand. “Answer it so we can move on.”

But he shook his head. “No, Harlene. I won’t dignify this with a response.”

His response told me something wasn’t right.

“Mark,” I said, my voice trembling, “if you don’t answer, I’m not sure I can go through with this wedding. I need to know there’s nothing to hide.”

He looked around and then sighed.

“Fine,” he said, glaring at Uncle Sam. “No, I have not cheated on Harlene.”

The machine beeped and the indicator flashed red. The words Lie detected appeared on the screen.

The gasp from the crowd was deafening. I stared at the machine.

“What?” I whispered. How is this possible?”

Uncle Sam smiled.

“Is there anyone in this room with whom you cheated?” he asked.

Mark looked like he’d been cornered. “No,” he said flatly.

Another red light. Lie detected.

I turned to Mark, my voice shaking. “Who, Mark? Who did you cheat on me with?”

He didn’t answer.

That’s when I noticed Melissa, my sister, shifting uncomfortably. A horrible thought crept into my mind.

“Was it her?” I asked, pointing at Melissa. “Did you cheat on me with my sister?”

Mark froze. He looked at Melissa before his gaze locked with mine.

“Tell me Mark!” I insisted. “Was it her? Melissa?”

Mark looked at the ground and said what I didn’t want to hear.

“Yes,” he said.

The machine didn’t need to confirm it, but it did. Truth.

The silence in the room was deafening, broken only by my shaky breath. My mind raced as I stared at Mark, then at Melissa, who looked like she wanted to disappear into the floor.

Before I could even form a question, Uncle Sam cleared his throat.

“I wasn’t going to say anything today,” he began, his gaze fixed on Mark. “But I saw you two together a few weeks ago. I was at the mall, grabbing lunch, when I spotted you, Mark, holding Melissa’s hand. I thought maybe I was imagining it until I saw the way you leaned into her. The way you touched her cheek.”

He paused, shaking his head in disgust. “It wasn’t how a future brother-in-law behaves with his fiancée’s sister. I hoped I was wrong, but something told me I wasn’t. So, when Melissa showed up today acting nervous and twitchy, I decided it was time to find out the truth.”

His words were like knives, cutting through whatever illusion I’d been clinging to. I looked at Melissa, whose face was streaked with tears. “Why?” I whispered, barely able to speak. “You’re my sister. How could you?”

“Harlene, I…” she started, but her voice cracked, and she couldn’t finish.

Then, I turned to Mark. “You didn’t just betray me. You betrayed everything we built together. How could you do this? Why?”

Mark looked away, unable to meet my eyes. “I made a mistake,” he muttered, as if that was supposed to erase the pain he’d caused.

My chest tightened, and my vision blurred with tears. I couldn’t forgive Mark. I knew cheating wasn’t just a mistake. It was a choice, and one I could never accept.

Without another word, I ripped off the wires from the lie detector and walked out, leaving behind the man I thought I knew, the sister I thought I could trust, and the wedding that would never be.

Some betrayals leave scars too deep to heal, and this was one I couldn’t ignore.

If you enjoyed reading this story, here’s another one you might like: Weddings are supposed to be filled with joy, but as I watched Shanize approach the altar, a knot formed in my stomach. Something was wrong, and I couldn’t ignore it. When I finally stepped forward to lift her gown, the truth I found left me frozen in shock.

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The twin brothers marry twin sisters: now their children are sh0cking everyone… https://simplymeblog.com/the-twin-brothers-marry-twin-sisters-now-their-children-are-sh0cking-everyone/ Fri, 17 Jan 2025 08:58:46 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=108335 It’s not every day you hear a story as extraordinary as twin brothers marrying twin sisters and starting a life together under one roof. That’s exactly what happened when Josh and Jeremy Salyers tied the knot with Brittany and Briana Dean in 2018. The couples first met at the Twin Days Festival in Ohio, an annual celebration of twins and their special connections. What began as a serendipitous meeting quickly blossomed into romance, and their shared love story culminated in a stunning double wedding that captured the attention of many.

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Since their marriage, the Salyers couples have embraced a unique lifestyle that reflects their extraordinary bond. They decided to live together in the same home in Virginia, where they also run a wedding event business as a team. Their shared living arrangement, business ventures, and intertwined lives have intrigued people worldwide, sparking curiosity about how they navigate such a close-knit family dynamic. Addressing one common misconception, the couples have made it clear that there is no partner swapping involved—each couple maintains their individual relationship while celebrating their shared identity as twins.

In 2020, the couples thrilled their social media followers by announcing that both Brittany and Briana were pregnant at the same time. This synchronized milestone added another layer of fascination to their story, as fans eagerly anticipated the arrival of the next generation of their unique family. True to their synchronized lives, the sisters gave birth just three months apart. Brittany and Josh welcomed their son Jett, while Briana and Jeremy celebrated the birth of their son Jax.

What makes their children particularly remarkable is their genetic makeup. Because Brittany and Briana are identical twins, as are Josh and Jeremy, their children are legally cousins but genetically much closer to siblings. This rare phenomenon has intrigued both fans and genetic experts alike. The children, Jett and Jax, are a living testament to the unique bond shared by their parents and have only heightened the public’s fascination with this one-of-a-kind family.

Life in the Salyers household is as intertwined as one might imagine. The couples share not just a home and a business but also a lifestyle that often blurs the lines between individuality and unity. Social media posts frequently show the family dressed in matching outfits, emphasizing their close-knit dynamic and identical looks. This penchant for coordination further highlights their shared identity and their willingness to embrace the novelty of their situation.

As parents, the Salyers couples are navigating the joys and challenges of raising their children together. Living under one roof has allowed them to share responsibilities, support one another, and provide their sons with a uniquely close family environment. Their children are growing up in a household unlike any other, surrounded by love, laughter, and the deep connection that only twins can share.

Looking ahead, the couples have hinted at the possibility of expanding their family. While they haven’t made any concrete plans, Briana has expressed their interest in continuing their synchronized journey into parenthood. “We’re talking about getting pregnant again, but we’d like to get pregnant at the same time again,” she shared in a recent interview. “The kids are still quite young, so we’re waiting a bit longer to see what’s next.” Their commitment to maintaining their extraordinary lifestyle reflects their belief in the power of unity and the strength of their twin bond.

The Salyers’ story has captivated audiences worldwide, offering a glimpse into a family dynamic that defies conventional norms. Their decision to marry other twins and build a shared life together speaks to the profound connection that twins often share and their desire to create a life that celebrates that bond. Their children, Jett and Jax, are not only a reflection of their love but also a fascinating example of how genetics and family dynamics can create something truly unique.

As the Salyers family continues to share their journey on social media, they’ve inspired curiosity, admiration, and even a bit of envy. Their story challenges traditional ideas of family and relationships, proving that there’s no one-size-fits-all formula for happiness. By embracing their individuality as twins and their unity as a family, they’ve created a life that is as remarkable as it is heartwarming.

In a world that often celebrates individuality, the Salyers remind us of the beauty of shared experiences and the strength of family bonds. Their journey is a testament to the power of love, connection, and the extraordinary ways in which life can surprise us. As they continue to navigate parenthood and their intertwined lives, the Salyers remain a beacon of inspiration for those who dare to live life on their own terms.

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10 Best Methods To Keep Your Teeth Healthy… https://simplymeblog.com/10-best-methods-to-keep-your-teeth-healthy/ Wed, 15 Jan 2025 02:59:49 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=107804 Teeth are one the most sensitive parts of the human body that get affected by changing food habits, unhygienic practices, and much more. Looking after your oral health is one of the primary steps to achieve excellent overall health.

A comprehensive Oral Health Tracker and study conducted by a leading thinktank in Australia in 2018 revealed that almost 90 precent of adults in the country struggle with some form of tooth decay. Smoking habits and excessive alcohol consumption are found to be major reasons for poor oral health.

Since poor oral health can lead to severe health issues such as stroke, heart issues, Alzheimer’s disease, diabetes, and more, you should know what can contribute to your oral health.

It is a known fact that brushing and flossing regularly can ensure good oral health. However, do you think that brushing and flossing alone can guarantee you good dental health? Do you know how to brush and floss properly for good oral health? You can ensure excellent oral health by following a ten-step strategy.

1. Brush Twice A Day
Brushing twice a day is the primary step towards good oral health. While some dentists recommend that you brush after every meal, many people find this impractical to follow.

You should thoroughly brush your mouth in mornings and evenings. Do you know almost 51 percent of Australian adults brush their teeth two times a day? Still, over 90 percent of Australian adults have dental health issues.

One of the primary reasons for this drastic difference is improper brushing. When you brush, always choose a toothbrush with a small head and soft nylon bristles to avoid any damages to your gums. Small heads can cover your entire mouth and ensure better cleaning.

Use a toothpaste that contains fluoride and place your brush at a 45-degree angle against your teeth. You have to brush in back and forth, up and down short strokes to clean your teeth and gums. Always try to brush in smaller sections without pressing too hard on teeth or gums.

You can keep your brush tilted vertically to clean inner surfaces of your teeth. You should also clean your tongue and cheeks in the brushing process. It removes bacteria and microbes from those areas. Finally, you should rinse your mouth thoroughly.

You should brush sufficiently to remove bacteria and food residues from your teeth for at least 2-3 minutes. It is recommended that you try to replace your toothbrush in every 3-4 months to ensure no frayed bristles.

People who have recovered from viral infections and flu are recommended to replace their toothbrush to avoid the re-insertion of microbes.

2. Floss Once A Day
Flossing once a day is another important step to achieve excellent oral health. While brushing removes the bacteria present on the surface of your teeth, it is not sufficient to remove the bacteria from the areas between teeth.

 

Take an 18-inch floss ribbon and wrap it around your fingers of both hands, leaving only a few inches for flossing. Then start flossing the area around each tooth using up-and-down and back-and-forth movements using your index fingers and thumbs.

While flossing, you should also ensure that your gums are being cleaned as well. While cleaning each area, you have to pay attention to use the newer sections of floss. This can avoid reinsertion of bacteria and microbes into different areas of teeth.

3. Rinse Your Mouth After Every Meal
Rinse your mouth with fresh water after every meal. It can remove the food residues stuck in your mouth. Your food can cause dental decay due to the acidic level of it, and water can neutralise the acidic condition effectively.

If you think that you ate a lot of acidic or sweet food, you can rinse your mouth with mouthwashes that contain chlorine dioxide or Listerine. People who feel that their brushing and flossing are not ideal can also use mouthwashes to improve their oral health. Mouthwashes reduce the acidity in the mouth, clean deeper areas of teeth and gums, and ensure remineralisation for teeth.

4. Proper Diet
It is common knowledge that teeth are made from calcium and phosphorous. You should also note that Vitamin C is highly essential for the proper growth of gums. The adequate intake of phosphorous and calcium can remineralise your teeth. You can ensure the supply of calcium by consuming low-fat milk, cheese, canned salmon, yogurt, dark green leafy vegetables, almonds, and beans and lentils.

Consumption of fish, eggs, lean meat, beans, dairy, and nuts can supply you the sufficient phosphorous. For Vitamin C, you can eat citrus fruits, potatoes, tomatoes, broccoli, spinach, and much more. To ensure proper oral health, you should have a balanced diet with all these food items.

5. Drink More Water
Drinking more water is a great option to ensure good overall health, and it can enhance your oral health as well. Drinking fluoridated water can help you to prevent cavities as fluoride is known as “nature’s cavity fighter.” According to a government data published in 2012, more than 70 percent of the population of the Northern Territory receives artificially fluoridated drinking water. Therefore, drinking your tap water can help you to improve your dental health.

Water also removes food residue and acidity from the food and keeps your mouth clean. Drinking the right quantity of water also helps you to keep dry mouth at bay. This will help to ensure that you have a sufficient production of saliva to get rid of dry mouth, as saliva has an important role in maintaining your oral health and fighting tooth decay.

6. Say No To These Foods
While you need to consume a balanced diet for your teeth, you should also say no or reduce the consumption of specific food products. Firstly, you should avoid carbonated drinks, including sodas. These drinks come with excess sugar and acids that can damage your teeth.

Alcohol is also a bad choice for your teeth as it can dry your mouth by reducing the production of saliva. Sour candies and food products that can stick to your teeth and gums can also lead to dental decay. You can also limit the consumption of sugary food products and drinks, including many energy and sports drinks, to protect your teeth from decay.

7. Say Goodbye To Tobacco
If you chew tobacco products or smoke, it is important to say goodbye to it. Chewing tobacco and smoking can cause stains on your teeth. Tobacco can create pockets in your teeth and gums for gum disease bacteria to grow. Apart from increasing the risks of gum disease, tobacco can make your dental treatments less effective.

Tobacco products can also compromise your immune system and lead to many dental and overall health issues. It also leads to the increased deposit of plaque on your teeth. Regular use of tobacco can lead to oral cancer as well.

8. No Excess Teeth Bleaching
Teeth whitening is an excellent option to bring back the original colour of teeth for people who have discoloured or stained teeth. However, some people tend to do bleach their teeth frequently, and that can become detrimental in the long run.

Excessive use of teeth whitening chemicals can lead to the erosion of the enamel. It can also increase the sensitivity of the tooth and cause gum irritation. Do you know that excessive use of peroxide-based whitening products can leave you with translucent teeth, more so than white ones? It can make your teeth discoloured, especially at the edges.

9. Regular Dental Check-Ups
Regular dental check-ups are another great way to ensure good oral health. You should have a dental appointment at least once in every six months to keep your teeth and gums healthy. During these appointments, your dentist will examine your teeth and provide you with professional teeth cleaning.

The dentist will examine your teeth, gums, other parts of your mouth, face, head, and neck for any swelling, redness, dental issues, and more. The dentist will then provide you with the necessary dental treatments. Finally, they clean your teeth and remove any tartar present on the surfaces of your teeth. Regular dental check-ups can help you to trace the early signals of dental and other health issues, including oral cancer, and ensure timely treatment.

10. Timely Dental Care
Apart from regular dental appointments, you should also provide timely care for your dental issues. Whenever you notice any tooth decay or gum issue, you should immediately seek the assistance of a dentist. Most dental issues can be easily addressed or cured if you take timely dental aid.

Similarly, if you experience any accidents that lead to fractures, broken teeth, or gum injuries, you should visit a dentist immediately. Early treatment can help you to save your teeth and ensure excellent oral health.

Maintaining your oral health is crucial. Good oral health helps you to interact with people more confidently and enjoy your favourite food items. Additionally, it stops you from experiencing various dental issues that can even affect your overall health.

You can achieve excellent oral health by following good hygienic practices, balanced diet, and regular dental visits.

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11 Signs Your Body Is Giving You Important Alerts… https://simplymeblog.com/11-signs-your-body-is-giving-you-important-alerts/ Thu, 09 Jan 2025 17:57:59 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=107137 While they may not all be cause for concern, some common signs our bodies give us as warnings of bigger problems often get ignored.

When our health is at stake, it’s always better to be safe than sorry.

So it’s a great idea to make a doctor’s appointment when we notice these symptoms.

That’s why we want to help you be prepared for the important signs our bodies give us. Remember to always check in with your doctor if you’re worried about your health.

1. Dandruff and hair loss

Having a flaky scalp can be a common problem, and paired with hair loss, this might be a sign of a lack of important vitamins and nutrients.

Low levels of zinc, B2, B3, B6, and B7 vitamins, as well as iron, can be the cause of this everyday issue.

2. Wrinkly hands and fingers

Developing wrinkles on our bodies is a normal, healthy sign of aging, and we usually get pruney fingers when we stay in water for a long period of time.

But when our hands start to look more wrinkled and lose elasticity faster than other body parts, it might be your body sending you a warning.

Wrinkles on your fingers without any exposure to water can mean dehydration, bad blood circulation, or a problem with your thyroid.

3. White patches on the tongue

A healthy tongue usually has a pinkish color.

If you notice white patches appear on your tongue, it might be a sign of oral thrush, which is very common among people who have diabetes.

The patches could also be a sign of inadequate oral care, so upping your oral hygiene game could help the issue.

4. Skin rashes

Usually, red and itchy skin is a sign of eczema, but sometimes rashes, along with a fever, can also be caused by infections or touching certain plants. Even if they don’t look very serious, the spots can get infected, so it’s recommended to have them checked by a medical professional.

5. Swollen ankles

Swollen ankles are a common sign of pregnancy, but if you are not expecting a child, they can mean bad blood circulation, heart problems, or underactive thyroid glands.

A less serious cause of this symptom is eating too much salt, which can lead to water retention.

6. Dry eyes

This can lead to a burning sensation, inflammation, and damage to the eyes.

The dryness might be caused by aging or certain medications, but it could also be a sign of Sjogren’s syndrome.

Sjogren’s is often accompanied by dry mouth, and it’s a disorder of the immune system.

7. Bloating

Some minor bloating after a meal is typically not cause for concern, but it might also be a sign of food sensitivity.

Eating foods you’re allergic to (even if you don’t know it) causes a lot of gas to be released in your stomach.

The most common foods that cause this are wheat and gluten.

8. Unexplained bruises

If you always find bruises in random places and don’t remember knocking into anything, it might be a good idea to turn to your doctor.

Random and easy bruising could mean a simple vitamin deficiency, but it can also be a sign of something more serious, like a blood clotting disease.

9. Constant thirst

Keeping your body hydrated and drinking plenty of water is always important, but always feeling thirsty is a typical symptom of prediabetes.

Other common symptoms are fatigue and frequent urination, which is a consequence of constant thirstiness.

10. Random muscle twitches

Muscle twitching can have many causes, including physical activity, stress, dehydration and not getting enough sleep.

In more serious cases, it could mean a neurological disorder or kidney disease.

11. Snoring

While annoying for your partner, snoring is often harmless for your body.

Less frequently, it might be a sign of OSA (obstructive sleep apnea).

Having OSA needs medical attention, and your doctor might prescribe you a medical device that helps you sleep and breathe better during the night.

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I Took in a Fortune Teller with a Newborn—I Was Stunned in the Morning When I Looked into My Sick Daughter’s Room https://simplymeblog.com/i-took-in-a-fortune-teller-with-a-newborn-i-was-stunned-in-the-morning-when-i-looked-into-my-sick-daughters-room/ Tue, 07 Jan 2025 04:13:04 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=106589 When I took in a stranded fortune teller and her newborn, I thought I was just offering shelter. But the next morning, my own daughter disappeared from her room.

It was late when I pulled off the highway, my eyes heavy after a long shift. Up ahead, something lay on the side of the road. As my headlights swept over it, I saw a woman, waving weakly.

I slowed down, my doctor instincts kicking in. She looked young and wore a bright scarf wrapped around her head. Her dress was flowing, with patterns and colors that almost glowed under the car’s lights. She looked like she was a fortune teller on a fairground, or maybe a traveling show.

“Help me,” she gasped as I got out and approached.

“Are you hurt?” I asked, moving closer.

She shook her head, wincing. “No… not hurt. I—” she grimaced, clutching her stomach. “It’s my baby… she’s coming…”

It took me a second to process, but then I saw the unmistakable signs. She was in labor, and the contractions looked close.

“Alright, stay calm,” I said, kneeling beside her. “I’m a doctor. Let’s get you through this, okay?”

I glanced around, but we were alone. I hadn’t delivered a baby in years, not since my residency. Still, I had to do something. There wasn’t time to get her anywhere else.

“What’s your name?” I asked, trying to keep her calm.

“Miranda,” she whispered, then cried out, another wave of pain washing over her.

The contractions came faster, and she grabbed my hand, squeezing hard. I guided her through each one, urging her to stay focused. Soon enough, I could see the baby’s head crowning.

“Almost there, Miranda,” I said. “One more big push. You’ve got this.”

She took a deep breath, pushed, and moments later, I held a tiny, squirming newborn in my hands. The baby let out a weak cry, and I felt a rush of relief. Wrapping the little girl in the towel, I handed her to Miranda.

I took a deep breath, glancing around the empty road. “Do you need to get to a hospital?”

“No,” she replied quickly, her eyes darting away. “I mean… I don’t… I can’t go to a hospital. I… I left my husband.” She hesitated, as if choosing her words carefully. “He… wasn’t kind to me. I ran away. I’m afraid the hospital will give me away.”

I nodded, sensing she was holding back details. “Alright. Do you have somewhere to go?”

She shook her head slowly, looking down at her baby, her expression a mixture of fear and love. “No. I just… I thought I’d figure it out. But then… the baby came early.”

For a moment, I hesitated. I lived alone with my six-year-old daughter after my wife passed away from cancer. Just us and our nanny. But this woman… she needed help.

“I have a guest room,” I said, hearing the words leave my mouth before I’d really thought it through. “You and your daughter can stay for a few days. Just until you get back on your feet. Then, you will have to go to the hospital.”

Miranda’s eyes filled with tears, and she managed a small smile. “Really? I… I don’t know what to say.”

“Thank you will do,” I replied, giving her a reassuring nod. “Come on, let’s get you both out of the cold.”

Back at my house, I set Miranda up in the guest room, showing her where she and her baby could rest. She seemed grateful, though clearly exhausted, cradling her newborn as she took in the large room.

“I used to work fairs,” she explained. “Fortune telling, palm reading… that sort of thing. It wasn’t much, but it kept food on the table.”

I nodded, listening as she shared small pieces of her life. She had a quiet, calm voice, with a hint of sadness. She didn’t say much about her past, but enough that I understood the situation was complicated.

Eventually, she finished her sandwich, and I could see her eyelids growing heavy.

“You should get some rest,” I said, keeping my tone gentle. “You’ve been through a lot tonight.”

The next morning, I got up early to check on my daughter, who was still recovering from her broken leg. But when I opened her bedroom door, her bed was empty. A quick rush of panic went through me.

“Sarah?” I called, scanning the room.

No answer.

My heart began to race as I checked the hallway, the kitchen, even the living room, but she was nowhere to be seen. Finally, I walked toward Miranda’s room, a strange feeling growing in the pit of my stomach.

I knocked softly before opening the door. Inside, the room was dim, the curtains pulled shut. In the quiet light, I saw Miranda sitting on the edge of the bed.

My daughter was curled up next to her, fast asleep, with Miranda’s newborn nestled beside them. Miranda was humming softly, her hand resting gently on Sarah’s head.

“What are you doing?” I asked, my voice cracking a little as I spoke.

Miranda put a finger to her lips, her eyes soft as she motioned for me to stay quiet. She leaned down to brush a stray hair from my daughter’s forehead before whispering, “I didn’t mean to worry you.”

I took a breath, willing myself to calm down. “What… happened? Why is Sarah in here?”

Miranda gave a small, reassuring smile. “I was awake with my daughter, trying to get her to sleep, when I heard your little girl crying.” She glanced at Sarah, still sound asleep beside her. “She sounded so upset. I couldn’t just ignore her, so I came in quietly to check on her.”

I nodded, letting her continue.

“She was talking in her sleep,” Miranda explained, her voice soft. “Something about ‘Mommy.’ She looked so lost.”

I swallowed, the mention of “Mommy” hitting me in a tender spot I tried not to dwell on. Sarah often cried out for her mother in her sleep, a wound we were both still trying to heal from.

“She held my hand, even in her sleep,” Miranda continued. “I told her a story my grandmother used to tell me. A silly tale about a guardian who watches over children’s dreams and keeps all the bad ones away. She seemed to calm down after that.”

Miranda looked down at Sarah, her hand resting gently on my daughter’s shoulder. “After a while, I didn’t want to leave her alone, so I brought her here with me.”

I felt my shoulders relax, the initial tension giving way to something softer, something I couldn’t quite name. “Thank you,” I said, my voice a bit rougher than I’d intended. “She’s… been having a hard time since the accident. And, well, since her mom passed.”

Miranda looked up at me, understanding in her eyes. “I know what it’s like to lose family. To feel like no one is there when you’re scared.” She reached over, patting Sarah’s hand. “She’s a sweet girl. She just needs someone close right now.”

I took a moment, watching her with my daughter, and realized that she’d managed to comfort Sarah in a way I hadn’t been able to in a long time. “She misses that,” I said quietly, more to myself than to Miranda. “A mother’s touch.”

Miranda gave a gentle nod, understanding without any need for more words. I felt a strange mix of gratitude and relief. She’d offered my daughter something I hadn’t been able to, a gentle presence we both seemed to need.

“Look, Miranda,” I began, taking a step closer. “I know you planned on moving on soon, but… maybe you could stay a little longer. Just until you’re ready. I think it would be good for Sarah.”

Miranda’s eyes softened, as if my words were both a surprise and a relief. “If you’re sure… I’d like that. Sarah’s a special little girl.”

Just then, Sarah stirred beside her, her eyes fluttering open. She looked up at me, blinking, and then glanced over at Miranda. “Daddy?” she mumbled, her voice thick with sleep.

I crouched down beside her. “Morning, sweetheart. You had a little adventure last night.”

Sarah’s gaze moved from me to Miranda, a small smile spreading across her face. “Miranda told me a story,” she murmured, a spark of excitement in her sleepy eyes. “About a guardian who keeps the nightmares away.”

Miranda chuckled softly. “You were very brave, you know.”

Sarah’s smile grew, her previous nervousness replaced with a shy kind of joy. “Will you tell me more stories?”

Miranda glanced over at me, and I nodded, feeling a warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. “Of course,” Miranda said, her voice warm. “I’d be happy to tell you as many as you like.”

In that small moment, the air felt lighter, as if the dark memories filling our home were giving way to something new. Sarah’s giggle as she asked Miranda questions about the story filled the room, a gentle melody that soothed something deep within me.

One night, as Sarah drifted off to sleep, I couldn’t help but feel grateful for Miranda’s unexpected presence. Somehow, this woman who had come into our lives in the strangest of ways had brought a kind of peace neither Sarah nor I had felt in a long time.

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My Neighbor Doused My Car With Water In Freezing Weather – He… https://simplymeblog.com/my-neighbor-doused-my-car-with-water-in-freezing-weather-he/ Thu, 02 Jan 2025 08:38:05 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=105884 My Neighbor Doused My Car With Water In Freezing Weather – He Regretted It That Same Night

After deciding that my beloved vintage sedan was a “eyesore,” my affluent neighbor decided to take matters into his own hands and froze my car solid overnight. However, he received a hard lesson from karma that same evening.Nearby car dealerships

NEIGHBOR: “I demand you sell that old junk car! It’s polluting the air my kids breathe!”

ME: “Oh really? Are you offering to buy me a new one?”

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NEIGHBOR: “If you don’t get rid of it within a week, I’ll make sure you do!”

I laughed off his “threat,” BUT a week later, I went outside and found my car completely covered in ice! There hadn’t even been rain! And there he was, sitting on his porch, sipping coffee with a smug look, saying, “Careful — looks like it’s raining every night!”

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I spent five hours scraping all that ice off. He was so pleased with himself, but little did he know karma had its own plans for him that very night!

Around midnight, I woke up to a strange sound, like a huge blast of water. Thinking he was messing with my car again, I peeked outside.

But when I saw what was really going on, I burst out laughing!

A fire hydrant at the edge of Tom’s property had exploded, sending a powerful jet of water directly at his house. In the freezing night air, the water was turning to ice on contact, slowly encasing his perfect home and his precious German SUV in a thick crystal shell.

The streetlights caught each frozen droplet, turning his property into a bizarre winter wonderland.

By morning, half the neighborhood had gathered in order to gawk at the spectacle. While some were taking photos with their phones, others were whispering behind their hands.

Tom stood in his driveway, attacking the ice with a tiny garden shovel, looking absolutely miserable in his designer winter coat. His perfectly styled hair was finally out of place, plastered to his forehead with sweat despite the cold.

I watched him struggle for some minutes before sighing heavily. Dad would’ve known what to do.

He always said that kindness costs nothing but means everything. I grabbed my heavy-duty ice scraper and walked over.

“Want some help?” I asked. “I’ve got some experience with this sort of thing.”

Tom looked up, surprised and suspicious. “Why would you help me? After everything?”

I started scraping. “Guess I’m just a better neighbor than you.”

We worked for hours, gradually freeing his car and clearing a path to his front door. By the time we finished, the sun was setting, and we were both exhausted.

The next morning, there was a knock at my door. Tom stood there, shifting his weight from foot to foot, making his expensive shoes creak.

“I owe you an apology,” he said. “I was a jerk. You didn’t have to help me yesterday, but you did.” He thrust an envelope at me. “This is to thank you… and to make amends.”

Inside was $5,000 in hundred-dollar bills.

“It’s for your car,” he explained quickly. “Get it fixed up — or get a new one if you’d prefer. Consider it a peace offering. And… I’m sorry about what I said. About you not belonging here.”

I looked at the money, then at my dad’s old sedan sitting in the driveway.

“Thanks, Tom,” I said, tucking the envelope into my pocket. “I think I know exactly what I’m going to do with this.”

A week later, my old sedan was sporting a fresh coat of paint, new tires, and a completely rebuilt engine. It stood out even more now as a perfectly restored classic in a sea of modern luxury vehicles.

Every time I caught Tom looking at it, I made sure to rev the engine extra loud. Sometimes he’d even give me a grudging nod of appreciation.

Sometimes the best rev:enge isn’t re:venge at all.

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My Mom Started Dyeing Her Hair Bright Pink After Turning 70, and I Don’t Like It… https://simplymeblog.com/my-mom-started-dyeing-her-hair-bright-pink-after-turning-70-and-i-dont-like-it/ Tue, 31 Dec 2024 02:53:50 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=105527 It’s not uncommon for people to make bold and unexpected changes to their appearance as they age. From experimenting with different fashion choices to embracing unconventional hairstyles, aging can be a time of newfound freedom for self-expression. One such example is an older adult who starts dyeing their hair a vibrant, attention-grabbing color, such as bright pink, as a way to feel youthful, energetic, and confident.

While the idea of older adults embracing unconventional styles might seem strange or uncomfortable to some, it’s important to recognize that for many, these choices are empowering. Age does not necessarily mean fading into the background or adhering to conventional norms. Instead, it can be an opportunity to express a renewed sense of self or try something fun and different.

However, for the children or loved ones of older adults making these bold choices, it can sometimes be difficult to reconcile this new self-expression with the image they’ve always had of their parent or relative. This tension often arises from cultural expectations of what aging should look like and a desire to protect loved ones from potential judgment or ridicule from others. But the core question is: should we be more concerned with how others perceive our loved ones, or with letting them enjoy their choices in the way that makes them happiest?

The Story Behind:

When my mom turned 70, she made a decision that caught me completely off guard. After years of modest, natural hair colors, she started dyeing her hair bright pink. At first, I thought it was a joke—just a temporary phase or maybe some quirky adventure she was having. But when it stuck, I found myself feeling uncomfortable every time I saw her. I would look at her and think, “Is this really her?” I couldn’t help but cringe, wondering what others must think when they see an elderly woman with such an outlandish hair color.

I tried gently suggesting that maybe she should tone it down a bit, that the pink didn’t really suit her. I said it in a loving way, hoping she’d understand, but she just laughed it off. She told me it made her feel young, vibrant, and full of life. To her, the bright pink hair was a symbol of her defiance against aging and the constraints society often places on older adults. She didn’t want to be invisible or conform to the stereotypical image of what a senior woman “should” look like.

Despite her joyful, carefree attitude, I couldn’t shake the feeling that she was making a mistake. What would others think? Would they judge her or laugh behind her back? More than once, I found myself feeling embarrassed by her choice, not because I didn’t love her, but because I was worried about how others would perceive her. After all, in our society, older people are often expected to “age gracefully”—which somehow doesn’t seem to include bright pink hair.

But as time passed, I began to realize that my discomfort had more to do with my own insecurities than anything else. It wasn’t really about her hair color—it was about my fears of what others might think of her, or of me, for letting her express herself in such a bold way. And yet, she seemed so happy. In fact, she had never looked more confident or alive.

This situation forced me to reflect on what really matters. Should I be more concerned with what I think or should I support her in her choices, especially since they bring her joy? The more I thought about it, the more I understood that her decision to dye her hair pink was her way of reclaiming her autonomy and celebrating life. It was her choice to make, and my role was to support her, even if it made me uncomfortable at first.

I realized that sometimes, the real challenge isn’t about trying to change someone’s appearance, but about accepting them as they are—even when it’s different from what we expect or are used to. So, I decided to let go of my judgments and accept that my mom was allowed to make bold choices, even if those choices didn’t fit neatly into my idea of what “age-appropriate” should look like.

In the end, it wasn’t about the pink hair at all. It was about my mom embracing life on her own terms. And if she felt that the bright pink color made her feel young and vibrant, who was I to tell her otherwise?

Moral of the Story:

We often think we know what’s best for our loved ones, especially when it comes to things like their appearance. But sometimes, the best thing we can do is support their decisions, even if they seem unconventional or out of the ordinary. Aging is a personal journey, and for many people, it’s a time to break free from societal expectations and embrace who they truly are. What may seem ridiculous or inappropriate to us might be someone else’s way of reclaiming their confidence and joy.

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Unapologetic Confidence: Redefining Beauty from Within… https://simplymeblog.com/unapologetic-confidence-redefining-beauty-from-within/ Mon, 30 Dec 2024 15:28:55 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=105488 In today’s world, women are redefining what it means to be beautiful—by embracing their individuality and unapologetic confidence. Beauty is no longer about fitting into societal molds or adhering to a narrow set of standards; it is about self-acceptance, self-respect, and celebrating what makes each person unique.

The modern woman knows that true allure isn’t found in the pages of a magazine or dictated by trends. Instead, it stems from a deeper, more intrinsic place—her confidence, her sense of self-worth, and her ability to embrace who she truly is, no matter what the world may say. Whether draped in luxurious fabrics or donning minimalist attire, she radiates a beauty that is impossible to replicate, because it is authentically hers.

The narrative surrounding beauty has evolved. More and more, we are seeing women, particularly in the modeling and fashion industries, openly challenging traditional ideals. Instead of presenting before-and-after images focused on weight loss or fitness journeys—often promoting unattainable, heavily edited standards—they are sharing their stories of acceptance, health, and self-love. These images aren’t about striving for some idealized version of “perfection.” Instead, they encourage the celebration of one’s body in all its forms and at all stages.

The Shift: Celebrating Authenticity

This movement, which has been gaining traction in social media spaces and beyond, is about shifting the focus from external validation to internal contentment. It encourages us to embrace our imperfections, to recognize that our beauty isn’t determined by how others see us, but by how we view and accept ourselves.

The before-and-after transformations, once seen as a showcase for weight loss or a quest for a “perfect” figure, are now becoming powerful statements about self-respect, acceptance, and the power of confidence. The women leading this charge are not just challenging traditional beauty standards—they are breaking them down entirely.

One remarkable example of this trend is the growing popularity of models who share unfiltered images of their bodies, embracing everything from cellulite to stretch marks to scars. These women make it clear: our bodies are not projects to be fixed, but vessels to be celebrated, no matter what shape or size they take. They prove that the most beautiful thing we can wear is the confidence to be unapologetically ourselves.

Inspiring Figures Leading the Way

Prominent figures in the fashion and entertainment industries have embraced this new vision of beauty, offering inspiring examples of how self-love can revolutionize our perception of attractiveness.

Ashley Graham: One of the most influential voices in the body positivity movement, Ashley Graham has made waves as a plus-size model who has consistently spoken out about embracing one’s curves and celebrating diverse body types. Through her Instagram and public appearances, she advocates for self-acceptance and challenges the traditional “ideal” of beauty.

Lizzo: A superstar who has used her platform to advocate for body positivity and unapologetic confidence, Lizzo’s message is loud and clear: your beauty doesn’t depend on your size. She encourages her followers to embrace their imperfections, take pride in their bodies, and shine with confidence.

Jameela Jamil: A vocal advocate for body positivity and mental health, Jameela Jamil uses her social media presence to call out harmful beauty standards while promoting self-love. Her #IWeigh movement invites people to list their worth in terms of qualities that aren’t based on appearance, such as kindness, strength, and intelligence.

Paloma Elsesser: A model who has become a beacon of diversity in the fashion industry, Paloma Elsesser speaks out against the industry’s lack of representation and embraces her fuller figure as a source of power. Her work helps shift the conversation around beauty to one that is inclusive of all shapes, sizes, and backgrounds.

These women, along with countless others, are shifting the narrative, teaching us that beauty is not about fitting into a mold, but about expressing who you are with confidence and authenticity.

The Message of Unapologetic Confidence

At its core, the message of unapologetic confidence is one of self-empowerment. It’s about shedding the need for external validation and embracing the beauty that comes from within. It’s about understanding that our worth is not determined by how others perceive us, but by how we see and respect ourselves.

In this new era of beauty, confidence is the most attractive trait, and it’s one that comes when we stop comparing ourselves to others and start honoring our own uniqueness. The movement encourages us to stop apologizing for who we are, to stop hiding our bodies, and to embrace the natural, unfiltered versions of ourselves.

By celebrating our imperfections and our differences, we learn to live authentically. Every stretch mark, every curve, every scar—these are not signs of “flaws” but expressions of the life we’ve lived. And when we embrace them, we shine with a beauty that no filter or beauty standard could ever replicate.

So, let’s stand tall in our uniqueness, celebrate who we are at every stage of our journey, and be unapologetically confident in our own skin. After all, true beauty comes from knowing and loving yourself, exactly as you are.

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Retired teacher’s letter to parents is hailed by thousands – do you agree? https://simplymeblog.com/retired-teachers-letter-to-parents-is-hailed-by-thousands-do-you-agree/ Mon, 30 Dec 2024 14:40:57 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=105467 The majority of people concur that education is important, especially for young people. Even though they occupy such a prominent position, teachers are frequently overworked and underpaid.

Educating the next generation excites and motivates many who enter the field, but many leave disillusioned and burned out these days. They deal with a variety of issues, and some of them attribute their burnout to certain factors. However, parents of the students are frequently the target of complaints.

An opinion piece that a retired teacher published in a newspaper in 2017 detailing her complaints about the classroom has gone viral online ever since it was published. Many struggling teachers today seem to agree with the article’s reliability.

“Parents are the problem”

 

Lisa Roberson penned this letter in the Augusta Chronicle, and her words continue to spark debate about whether parents or teachers are to blame for the issues with the education system. After the pandemic, virtual classes, and students unused to a typical school setting, Roberson’s piece may carry even more weight.

“As a retired teacher, I am sick of people who know nothing about public schools or have not been in a classroom recently deciding how to fix our education system,” she begins. “The teachers are not the problem! Parents are the problem!”

She explains that parents are not preparing their kids to learn. “They are not teaching their children manners, respect, or even a general knowledge of how to get along with others. The children come to school in shoes that cost more than the teacher’s entire outfit, but have no pencil or paper. Who provides them? The teachers often provide them out of their own pockets,” she said, referring to how teachers have to use their own money to supply and decorate their classrooms. “When you look at schools that are ‘failing,’ look at the parents and students. Do parents come to parent nights? Do they talk with the teachers regularly?”

She asks if parents ensure their children come to school with the required supples and do their homework regularly. “…Do the students listen in class, or are they the sources of class disruptions? When you look at these factors, you will see that it is not schools that are failing but the parents,” she concludes. “Teachers cannot do their jobs and the parents’ job. Until parents step up and do their job, nothing is going to get better!”

The Parent-Teacher Relationship

In a perfect world, educators and parents would collaborate harmoniously. But the real world is not like that, particularly not since the pandemic. Lockdowns compelled parents to monitor their children’s education more closely.

It also gave rise to numerous debates about policies pertaining to vaccinations, gender identity, race theory, school closings, masks, and other contentious political issues that lasted for years.

All things considered, though, educators and parents share the same goal: giving kids a solid education that will propel them into the future. Instructors must impart this knowledge, which may entail coming up with inventive strategies to connect with and motivate their students. Parents must also ensure that their children have the skills necessary for optimal learning before sending them to school.

Teaching them to adhere to classroom regulations, complete their assignments, be punctual, and other things can be part of this.

However, parents may not be able to involve themselves in their children’s education for a variety of reasons. At the same time, overactive parents can cause just as much difficulty, perhaps more.

“Ghost parenting may be impacting a certain subset of students, but helicopter parenting is probably more impactful on the problems that we are seeing today,” says Scott A. Roth, PsyD, a New Jersey certified school psychologist.

“We have many children who have never been permitted to feel disappointment or frustration because parents swoop in to prevent it from happening. This can cause a child to not trust that they will ever be able to solve their own problems.”

The parent-teacher dynamic is therefore more difficult to manage than it has ever been. During the pandemic, some students fell significantly behind their peers. The widespread lack of teachers is exacerbating the fatigue and burnout experienced by those who remain in the classroom. Many claim that since the pandemic, children’s behavior has gotten worse, making pre-pandemic routines and techniques ineffective.

“So many routines were disrupted for students, teachers, and their families. Even for states that didn’t extend school closings, routines at home were disrupted, and that is very difficult for young minds to comprehend,” says Brandi David, MEd, a Florida-based K-8 educator specializing in mathematics and development editor for Hand2Mind.

“Relationships matter”

Maybe the need for schools to adapt to the times is something that both parents and educators can agree on. The modern world and its particular challenges have not yet been addressed by curriculums, schedules, and the like.

Inequity, teaching life skills, technology integration, and other areas are areas that schools need to improve, according to Patricia A. Edwards, Ph.D., a distinguished professor at Michigan State University who specializes in supporting literacy learning and development for families of color.

“In response to these criticisms, many education reform efforts are underway, focusing on curriculum modernization, personalized learning, increased use of technology, and a shift away from standardized testing,” Dr. Edwards says. “These changes aim to better align K-12 education with the changing demands of the contemporary world.”

In the meantime, parents and teachers need to work together to make the most of children’s education. “The best way to keep students accountable for their behaviors is to have a working relationship with the parents,” says David. “…Teachers should share with parents what they are doing, if it’s working, such as a calming corner, breathing techniques, and opportunities to correct their behavior.”

“Relationships matter,” Dr. Roth adds, “Students that feel safe and cared for learn better. Teachers that can connect with students relationally have far fewer behavioral problems in their classes.”

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I Jokingly Wrote a Message on My Husband’s Chest before His Work Christmas Party & Unexpectedly Got an Answer… https://simplymeblog.com/i-jokingly-wrote-a-message-on-my-husbands-chest-before-his-work-christmas-party-unexpectedly-got-an-answer/ Thu, 26 Dec 2024 17:26:50 +0000 https://simplymeblog.com/?p=105144 It started as a lighthearted prank, just something fun to send my husband off to his work party with a laugh. But when he stumbled home drunk and I found a reply to my joke scrawled on his chest, it became clear that this night was about to change everything.

It’s strange, isn’t it? How you can be with someone for years, trust them wholeheartedly, and then suddenly question everything? I never thought I’d be that person: the one who starts second-guessing her marriage. But here I am, wondering how things got to this point.

I’m Micaela, and I’ve been married to Travis for five years. We were that couple everyone thought would last forever.

We met in college — me, a focused business major, and Travis, the charming goofball with dreams of climbing the corporate ladder. He was everything I didn’t know I needed. We balanced each other out, or so I thought.

Looking back, the early days of our relationship were so full of life and so carefree. Travis could make me laugh like no one else.

Even when things were tough — like when I lost my first job out of college or when his father passed away — we leaned on each other. We had each other’s backs. At least, that’s how it used to be.

Things changed gradually, almost imperceptibly. He started working longer hours, and I found a remote job. At first, I loved it. Working from home meant I had more flexibility and more time for myself.

But eventually, the space between us seemed to grow, and I didn’t even realize it was happening. He was still sweet, still attentive — but there was a distance, a new kind of silence that had settled between us. Maybe I should have seen the signs earlier.

It was the week before Christmas, and like clockwork, Travis’ company was throwing their annual holiday party. I didn’t have to worry about that anymore, thanks to working from home, but Travis, well, he was still part of the 9-to-5 grind.

He seemed excited about the party, though, and I figured it was a nice break from the routine for him.

I remember standing in our bedroom, watching him as he got dressed. He was fiddling with his shirt buttons, looking a bit nervous.

“Are you sure you want to wear that shirt?” I teased, raising an eyebrow.

“What’s wrong with it?” he asked, glancing down.

“Nothing, except you wore it to the last party and the one before that. Maybe switch it up a bit this year?” I suggested with a smile.

He chuckled. “You know me, Mica. I’m not exactly a fashion icon.”

While he was fixing his shirt in the mirror, I absentmindedly picked up a black marker from the dresser. I twirled it in my fingers, my mind wandering to silly thoughts. And then, a mischievous idea struck me.

“Hey, Trav, hold still,” I said, walking up behind him.

“What are you doing?” he laughed, looking at me in the mirror as I pulled up his shirt.

“This,” I said, as I scribbled on his chest in bold letters, “This is my husband. If you touch him, you’ll pay for it. M.”

Travis stared at my handiwork in the mirror and shook his head, amused. “Really, Mica? That’s what you’re going with?”

“What? It’s cute!” I grinned. “Besides, now everyone knows you’re off-limits.”

“Yeah, because that’s what every guy wants — his wife’s handwriting all over him,” he teased, pulling his shirt down.

He planted a tender kiss on my cheek before grabbing his coat. “I’ll be back early, promise. Don’t wait up.”

And with that, he was gone, leaving me alone with my thoughts.

In Travis’ absence, I decided to make use of the time. Our living room still needed decorating, and I’d been meaning to put up the Christmas tree for days. I blasted some holiday music and began hanging the stockings and stringing up the lights. It felt good: that familiar warmth of Christmas filling the house.

Hours passed, and I had nearly finished decorating the house when I heard the front door creak open. Travis stumbled in, his steps unsteady, and I could smell the alcohol on him from across the room. He wasn’t just tipsy; he was drunk.

“Heyyyy, I’m home,” he slurred, grinning as he leaned against the doorframe for support.

I sighed, half-amused, half-exasperated. “You said you’d be back early.”

“Yeah, well, I lost track of time,” he mumbled.

“Come on, let’s get you to bed,” I said, walking over to him and looping my arm under his to guide him to our room.

Helping him undress was no small feat. He swayed, laughing at nothing, as I struggled to pull his shoes off. Finally, I managed to get him out of his shirt, but as I folded it, I noticed something strange.

There, on his chest, right above where I had written my playful message, was a reply: smudged and faded but unmistakable. “Keep the change.”

At first, I laughed. It seemed like the kind of thing one of his friends would do after a few drinks. But the more I thought about it, the more uneasy I felt. Who had written it? And why?

That night, I lay in bed next to Travis, who was snoring softly, and stared at the ceiling. The words echoed in my mind, refusing to let me sleep. “Keep the change.” It was such a simple phrase, but it felt like a warning, like something was off.

I tried to push the thoughts away, telling myself it was just a joke. Travis had never given me a reason not to trust him. We had a good marriage — solid, built on years of love and mutual respect. He wouldn’t jeopardize that, would he?

But still, doubt crept in, little by little, until it was all I could think about.

The next morning, Travis woke up groggy, his head pounding from the night before. As we sat at the kitchen table, sipping coffee in awkward silence, I finally asked him about the message.

“So… do you remember anything from last night?” I asked casually.

He looked up, confused. “Uh, bits and pieces. Why?”

“Well,” I said, choosing my words carefully, “someone left a reply to my little note on your chest.”

He blinked. “A reply?”

“Yeah, ‘Keep the change.'”

Travis’ brow furrowed in confusion. “What? Who would’ve written that?”

“I don’t know, you tell me,” I said, my voice light but laced with tension. “You’re the one who was there.”

He rubbed his forehead. “Honestly, Micaela, I don’t remember much after we left the office. We went to a bar, did some karaoke, and then… I don’t know. One of the guys probably wrote it. It’s nothing.”

But his explanation didn’t ease the discomfort I felt. If anything, it made it worse.

I couldn’t shake the feeling that something wasn’t right. For days, the message haunted me. Every time I looked at Travis, I wondered if he was hiding something.

He seemed normal enough, but there was a subtle change in the way he acted — or maybe I was imagining it. Either way, I couldn’t let it go.

That’s when I decided to talk to my mom. I spilled everything over a cup of coffee, even the nagging feeling that had been eating at me since that night. She listened quietly, her face thoughtful, and then she offered a suggestion I wasn’t expecting.

“Why don’t you track his car?” she said, almost too casually.

“What? You mean… spy on him?” I asked, wide-eyed.

“Not spy, exactly,” she replied. “Just… check. If there’s nothing to worry about, you’ll know. And if there is…”

She didn’t need to finish the sentence. I knew what she meant.

Reluctantly, I agreed. I installed a GPS tracker on his car, feeling both guilty and anxious. For the next week, I watched his movements. Everything seemed normal at first — just work, home, work again. But then, one night, he called me.
“Hey, I have to stay late at the office,” he said. “Just tying up some loose ends before the holidays.”

I didn’t think much of it until I glanced at the tracker. His car wasn’t at the office. It was moving… away from it, toward a part of town we rarely visited.

My stomach knotted. Without thinking, I grabbed my keys and followed him.

My heart raced as I parked a few houses down from where the GPS indicated his car was. It was a beautiful, upscale neighborhood: the kind where the homes looked like they belonged on magazine covers. But what was he doing here?

Then I saw him.

Travis stepped out of one of the houses, smiling, and next to him… a woman. She was tall, elegant, and reached out to him as he turned to face her. And then she kissed him.

Everything inside me shattered.

I sat there, frozen, unable to move or breathe. It felt like time had slowed down, the world around me fading away. I fumbled for my phone and snapped a few pictures, proof of what I couldn’t believe I was seeing.

I don’t know how long I sat there, staring at the images on my screen, but eventually, I got out of the car and walked toward them.

Travis saw me first. His face turned pale, and the woman let go of his arm, her eyes widening in surprise.

“So,” I said, my voice shaking, “you’re the one who left the message on my husband?”

The woman looked at me for a moment, and then, to my surprise, she smiled sadly. “You deserve better,” she said softly. “Men like him… they’re like spare change. Easy to throw away.”

I felt the tears welling up, but I refused to let them fall. Travis stood there, his mouth opening and closing like a fish out of water, but no words came out.
That was the moment I knew. It wasn’t just about the kiss or the message. It was about everything that had led up to it — the lies, the distance, the feeling that something wasn’t right. I walked away from them both, my heart broken but my head clear.

When I got back to my car, there was a text from my mom. “I’m here for you, sweetheart. Call me when you’re ready. Also, here’s the number for a good divorce lawyer.”

This Christmas wasn’t what I expected. Instead of the celebration I’d hoped for, I was given the gift of truth — painful, but necessary. Now, I’m facing a new beginning. A new year that’s about rediscovery, healing, and finding happiness on my own terms.

Life is unpredictable, and sometimes, all we can do is pick up the pieces and move forward.

What would you have done differently if you were in my shoes?

If this story was worth your while, then you might like another one: When I opened the door to see my ex-husband on his knees, I knew something was seriously wrong. The man who once shattered my life was now pleading for me to fix his, but the reason why left me speechless.

 

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